We’ve all heard the saying, “when one door closes, another one opens,” but for the longest time I supposed I unknowingly carried a more passive attitude in regards to that.
When I would think about that mantra, it seemed in my mind to suggest that I should be patient in waiting for that right opportunity to come along. I’m a firm believer in everything happens for a reason, but did that mean I’m supposed to wait around? Having a career as an actor and screenwriting is mostly about waiting anyways, so it’s nothing I wasn’t used to. However, recently something clicked for me and made me realize that it’s not just a waiting game. Patience is a virtue, but being passive can detrimental.
For about two years I was with an agency that I knew I needed to move on from. Just a few months ago, I kept telling myself, “Okay, as soon as a great new opportunity comes along with a different agency, I will promptly move on from them.” I thought that was the smart thing to do, trying to play my cards right. If I left my old agency, what else would I be stuck with? Nothing?
Just recently one morning I got up, grabbed my phone, called my agency, and asked what I needed to do to terminate my contract with them. I had reached a boiling point of not being where I wanted to be and waiting around for a new opportunity could’ve taken who knows how long! I literally sat at my kitchen table and said a quick little prayer that a new door would open for me because in that moment I definitely felt like there wasn’t much to go off of. Then I opened my laptop to get to work and just let it go. I took a proactive step in a new direction and hoped the rest would fall into place.
TWO HOURS LATER I received an email from an agent I had never heard of and never submitted myself to in my life. He told me he wanted to meet with me in person to discuss representation. WHAT!? How insane is that? Not only to have this new opportunity, but to have an agent who is going after me, not the other way around (and trust me you don’t want to see the number of emails I’ve sent over the years to agents asking for two minutes of their time to meet me). I was so pleasantly surprised. I didn’t have to chase this guy down and beg for a meeting. He sought me. What a change of pace.
I couldn’t have received a bigger affirmation that when we MAKE SPACE for new opportunities in our lives, doors will open and creative opportunities will fall into our laps.
But that’s the thing, they don’t just arrive because we’ve been patiently waiting twiddling our thumbs. Those opportunities are pulled our direction because we have that beautiful combination of actively taking steps towards our future while (still rather patiently) waiting for the seeds of opportunity that we’ve planted to bloom.
Sometimes it’s not always about playing your cards right. Sometimes it’s about taking a risk, taking action, and keeping the faith that something will come along.