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June 2018

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Making Space in Your Life for New Opportunities

We’ve all heard the saying, “when one door closes, another one opens,” but for the longest time I supposed I unknowingly carried a more passive attitude in regards to that.

When I would think about that mantra, it seemed in my mind to suggest that I should be patient in waiting for that right opportunity to come along. I’m a firm believer in everything happens for a reason, but did that mean I’m supposed to wait around? Having a career as an actor and screenwriting is mostly about waiting anyways, so it’s nothing I wasn’t used to. However, recently something clicked for me and made me realize that it’s not just a waiting game. Patience is a virtue, but being passive can detrimental.

For about two years I was with an agency that I knew I needed to move on from. Just a few months ago, I kept telling myself, “Okay, as soon as a great new opportunity comes along with a different agency, I will promptly move on from them.” I thought that was the smart thing to do, trying to play my cards right. If I left my old agency, what else would I be stuck with? Nothing?

Just recently one morning I got up, grabbed my phone, called my agency, and asked what I needed to do to terminate my contract with them.  I had reached a boiling point of not being where I wanted to be and waiting around for a new opportunity could’ve taken who knows how long! I literally sat at my kitchen table and said a quick little prayer that a new door would open for me because in that moment I definitely felt like there wasn’t much to go off of. Then I opened my laptop to get to work and just let it go. I took a proactive step in a new direction and hoped the rest would fall into place.

TWO HOURS LATER I received an email from an agent I had never heard of and never submitted myself to in my life. He told me he wanted to meet with me in person to discuss representation. WHAT!? How insane is that? Not only to have this new opportunity, but to have an agent who is going after me, not the other way around (and trust me you don’t want to see the number of emails I’ve sent over the years to agents asking for two minutes of their time to meet me). I was so pleasantly surprised. I didn’t have to chase this guy down and beg for a meeting. He sought me. What a change of pace.

I couldn’t have received a bigger affirmation that when we MAKE SPACE for new opportunities in our lives, doors will open and creative opportunities will fall into our laps.

But that’s the thing, they don’t just arrive because we’ve been patiently waiting twiddling our thumbs. Those opportunities are pulled our direction because we have that beautiful combination of actively taking steps towards our future while (still rather patiently) waiting for the seeds of opportunity that we’ve planted to bloom.

Sometimes it’s not always about playing your cards right. Sometimes it’s about taking a risk, taking action, and keeping the faith that something will come along.

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Interview with Voyage LA Mag #TrailBlazers

A few weeks ago I had the honor of being interviewed by Voyage LA Mag as part of their #ValleyTrailblazers series. I was so excited when they reached out to me for the opportunity to tell part of my story, my goals, and my inspiration. When they told me that their goal is to help hard-working, inspiring people tell their stories authentically and in their own words, I said count me in! Below is the article published on their website. Give it a read and let me know what you think!

Today we’d like to introduce you to Samantha Skelton.

So, before we jump into specific questions about the business, why don’t you give us some details about you and your story.

I’m an LA native – born and raised! I’ve come to realize how rare that is with the industry that I’m in. Aside from running this blog, I’m also an actor and screenwriter.

I had wanted to start a blog for the longest time, but just never had time in college. I majored in Screenwriting at California State University, Northridge. College was an amazing experience for me and taught me so much. As soon as I graduated, I pursued everything I’m passionate about with full speed. That meant acting, screenwriting, and starting my blog.

I finally landed on The Constant Creative because I feel like that’s how much of my life is. I’m constantly doing something– writing a new script, collaborating with others to create short films, diving into new books, always pushing myself in some new direction, and for the longest time, I also had an Etsy shop.

Has it been a smooth road?

I’ve always had that entrepreneurial spirit about me — I made a powerpoint presentation when I was 8 years old for my parents about why I should be allowed to go around to my neighbors selling Christmas stationary! So, I think I was bound to embark on other ventures like this someday, ha!

But, of course, nothing is ever easy. I’m constantly learning new things, always evolving. I don’t think I will ever stop learning in any area.

When I started my blog, it was in conjunction with my Etsy shop. I had an Etsy shop since 2013 where I sold handmade typewriter quote cards and I really thought creating my own website/blog would help business for my Etsy shop. Eventually, I learned that I was being pulled in too many directions, and if I had to pick… my energy was better spent on the things I’m most passionate about. This year, I closed my Etsy shop to focus on my acting but I still love having my blog. It’s a great way to connect with other like-minded women, meet new people, and learn new things.

My advice for other young women that want to start their own blog or business, or maybe who are hesitating to go after something they want is just to START. Just begin. The only way you will know if something is right for you or not is to try it out. It’s not the end of the world if you go in another direction. Also, don’t be so hard on yourself. As long as you’re taking action somehow, you’re forward moving.

So let’s switch gears a bit and go into The Constant Creative story. Tell us more about the business.

I started The Constant Creative to ignite a fire in people and leave them feeling more inspired than when I found them. I also started it to connect with other creative people in the online community. We all leave a legacy, whether it’s on the big screen or tucked away on the internet through a little blog. I truly love that one is not more significant than the other.

For good reason, society often focuses more on the problems rather than the opportunities that exist, because the problems need to be solved. However, we’d probably also benefit from looking for and recognizing the opportunities that women are better positioned to capitalize on. Have you discovered such opportunities?

Something I talked about on my Instagram recently was the idea of an abundance mindset vs. a scarcity mindset. I think so often women are viewed as being standoff-ish towards other women or the media pits women against each other. I see so much opportunity for women to share the wisdom they’ve learned so far and then collaborate to make something great. Everything is not a competition.

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